I found the error by myself...
The problem never came from oscillator config at all !!!in fact i dont know if is a mikroe bug or whatelse but...
I remembered i copy paste the timer0 part from examples...  look:  the _bit is everywhere !!!
// Enable global and peripheral interrupts
     INTCON = 0xC0;       // Set GIE, PEIE
// Setup and enable TIMER0
     TMR0ON_bit = 0;      // turn off the timer during setup
     TMR0IE_bit = 1;      // Enable TMRO interrupt
     T08BIT_bit = 1;      // Enable 8 bit control (as opposed to 16-bit)
     T0CS_bit = 0;        // use internal clock to trigger timer to count
    PSA_bit = 0;         // Use the prescaler to slow the timer down
     // prescaler
     // 111 = 1:256 Prescale value
     // 110 = 1:128 Prescale value
     // 101 = 1:64 Prescale value
     // 100 = 1:32 Prescale value
     // 011 = 1:16 Prescale value
     // 010 = 1:8 Prescale value
     // 001 = 1:4 Prescale value
     // 000 = 1:2 Prescale value
     T0PS0_bit = 0;
     T0PS1_bit = 0;
     T0PS2_bit = 0;
     TMR0L = TIMER_START_VALUE;
     TMR0H = 0;
// TIMER2 config to create pwm.
// PWM frequency = 1/((PR2 + 1) * 4 * TOSC * TMR2prescaler)
   T2CON=0b00000011;  //prescaler 1:16 and turn on TMR2
   PR2=249;// period definition
   CCPR1L = 0; // max DC:  63 for =< 500us   32 for 250u  48 for 375
   CCP1CON.b4 = 0; // Place bit-0 of the duty in the LSB register(bit-4)
   CCP1CON.b5 = 0; // Place bit-1 of the duty in the LSB register(bit-5)
   CCP1CON.b2 = 1; // Turn on PWM Module one,
   CCP1CON.b3 = 1; // by setting bits 2 and 3 of CCP1CON
//   Delay_ms(100/5);  // stupid delay just to wire the Vcc from the servos
 INTCON.GIE = 1;
 INTCON.PEIE = 1;
 PIE1.RCIE = 1; //enable interrupt.
 UART1_Init(115200);
      
     TMR0ON_bit= 1;      // start the timer
     T2CON.TMR2ON=1;
 // i debugged with this itchy bitchy blink !!    
     LATC.F0=1;
     Delay_ms(500);
     LATC.F0=0;
 //VDelay_us(1000000);
 Delay_ms(1000) ;
  while(1){...
}
And is the TMR0ON_bit who piss all my code...  delay of 500ms become a 2.5sec one !!
So now the problem is ton configure correctly the timer0 to not disturb my system...